So you want to get into...role-play

Ready for a plot twist? Here's how it can spice up your love life.

- Sophie Howe

Could your love life use a little spark? Role-playing is the thing to shake things up and add excitement to your relationship. Whether you're recreating a flirty first date or diving into a steamy fantasy, dressing up lets you step into your partner's desires and explore your own. Plus, it's a lot of fun.

If you've been curious about exploring a shared fantasy, here's how to role-play with your partner.

WHAT IS ROLE-PLAYING?

Role-playing isn't just about adding some fun to the bedroom. It can help couples break out of routine and bring variety to intimate moments. Whether you're trying out a new persona or indulging in a fantasy, role-playing opens up endless possibilities.

“Incorporating role-play into your sexual repertoire can benefit your sex life for several reasons,” says sex and relationship therapist Aleks Trkulja. “Firstly, it diversifies the ways in which you can explore pleasure. Secondly, it encourages open communication about the scenarios you'd like to try, helping you learn more about your partner.”

Role-playing also creates space for more meaningful conversations about desires, boundaries, and preferences. As Trkulja explains, “It allows you to play out specific fantasies or sexual desires,” which can build trust and create a safe space for intimacy.

HOW TO GET STARTED

Starting with role-play can feel a little awkward, especially if it's new for you or your partner. The key to easing into it is simple: Open communication.