Meet The Stand Several-Night (He Could Be Yours!)

Just like Goldilocks, we’ve found the perfect medium: this relationship sweetspot that’s more than a one-night stand, but not enough to hold a good (bad) girl down

- Mel Evans

THE OLD EL PASO porque no los dos? girl has a lot to answer for. ‘Why don’t we have both’ has become the catchcry of the Gen Y set. We want to travel but have a career, buy a house but have avocado toast, look like Kayla Itsines but also live on mimosas. We’ve been looking for the secret ingredient to personal life balance – and we just may have found it.

Introducing… the Several Night Stand (or SNS)! Also known as the answer to the question, ‘How can I avoid the shitness of the one-night stand while still having some pretty awesome casual S-E-X?’

For those of us who are averse to something serious at the moment, some of us are still keen on something that mimics an actual relationship – without the admin. When we’re talking about ‘having it all’, we’re not referring to life. Well, we are, but our sex life.

The SNS is a handy state of play given to the act of spreading (wrong choice of word?) a ‘one-night stand’ out over a few nights. Several nights, if you will. It stops short of anything that can be considered dating. It’s like friends with benefits, but they’re not your friend. What a time to be alive.

Just what is it?