Like Emma, I'm Reclaiming Orgasms

Georgette Culley is putting herself first when it comes to sex.

- Kara O'Neill And Georgette Culley

When Emma Watson told the world she subscribes to a website that teaches women how to have a better orgasms, people sat up and took notice. The OMGYes website features how-to videos and interviews with real women who talk about their own sexual pleasure – and how best to achieve it.

It’s a conversation that the Harry Potter actress, 28, believes isn’t being had often enough.

‘It’s a pretty cool website, and I wish it had been around for longer,’ says Emma. ‘It’s expensive… but worth it.’

After spending years having bad sex, Georgette Culley, 31, decided to take a leaf out Emma Watson talks feminism with activist Gloria Steinem of Emma’s book and put herself first in the bedroom…

‘What’s the matter, baby?’ asked my former lover. ‘I thought you liked that.’

‘No,’ I replied, pushing his sweaty body off me. ‘I don’t like your chubby digits pawing at me.’

Quite frankly, I’ve had more enjoyable smear tests. But sadly this encounter was not a one-off. For more than a decade I’ve had unsatisfying sex.

Why? Because, like most younger women, I thought it was all about ensuring the guy had a great time.

All the pressure of finding ‘The One’ meant I ignored my desires and focused solely on his.

So it came as no surprise to me to read that four in 10 women are unhappy with their sex lives, and those aged 25 to 34 were the least satisfied. But those in their mid-50s or nearing retirement were the most content, according to the first sex survey by Public Health England.