Stiller explores his family legacy

The actor pays tribute to his famous parents in 'Stiller & Meara: Nothing Is Lost.'

- ROBERT LLOYD

ANNE MEARA STILLER and Jerry Stiller with their children, Ben and Amy, in an image from the new Apple TV documentary "Stiller & Meara: Nothing Is Lost."

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Ben Stiller has made a lovely, dreamlike film about his parents, the comedian-actors Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara, which is also a film about himself, his sister, Amy Stiller, and his own fatherhood as reflected back by his children and his wife, the actor Christine Taylor.

Streaming now on Apple TV, "Stiller & Meara: Nothing Is Lost" is a show business story, in large part, but will be emotionally familiar to anyone who has had the occasion to wonder about their parents' lives, in their parents' absence.

Though both had set out to be actors — "I carried Eleanora Duse's life under one arm," says Anne, "and 'An Actor Prepares,' Stanislavski, under the other" — Jerry had been thinking of getting into comedy when he met Anne. They married in 1954, but it wasn't until 1963 that the conjoined career of Stiller and Maera took off, with an appearance on "The Ed Sullivan Show." They might play the last two people on Earth meeting for the first time, or an Irish girl and a Jewish boy matched by computer dating. He was a fretful perfectionist who would endlessly rehearse; Anne was naturally funny; she flowed.