She loves me but menopause has ruined our sex life

Dear Coleen

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Any ideas on how I can enjoy a good sex life with my wife again? We're both in our mid-50s, our kids have left home and we're both fit, active and look good, which I hope doesn't sound arrogant.

The problem is, my wife has shut down sex after going through menopause.

She's been upfront about it and says she still loves me and finds me attractive, but has zero sex drive. She says she doesn't feel like it, think about it or even miss it.