Older hubby's kind and reliable but I don't feel a spark

Dear Coleen

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I'M A 28-year-old woman and my husband is 55. We got together three years ago and have a two-year-old daughter.

The problem is, I fell in love with my husband's kindness, his good heart and his reliability, which are all amazing qualities, but I don't find him sexually attractive at all.

I don't think I ever did - I think I tried to convince myself having someone I could trust and depend on would be enough to make up for the lack of sexual chemistry.