The Closer I Get To You

What is attachment parenting? We discuss this concept and its benefits for both parents and baby

- Sally Michener

Some believe the best way to achieve the proper fit between parents and child is to practise a parenting style called ‘attachment parenting’. This is a way of caring that brings out the best in both parents and their baby.

Don’t expect to learn everything at once. Parenting is a learn-as-you-go profession; it takes hands-on experience. These suggestions are just starter tips. From these basics, you’ll grow and develop your own style, one that best fits your baby’s temperament and your personality.

Also, there’s no way you can completely decide on a parenting style before you have a baby. Determining how much to hold your baby, what you’ll do when she wakes at 3 a.m., and how long you’ll breastfeed requires on-the-job training. Reserve these decisions until you see what your baby is like.

THE 7 BS OF ATTACHMENT PARENTING

There are three goals that are seen as important for beginner parents:

• To know your child

• To help your child feel right

• To enjoy parenting

The style of parenting discussed here helps you achieve these goals. Here are the seven concepts that make up attachment parenting:

1. Birth bonding—Connect with baby early