Onam in 1990s: Expat recalls collecting flowers from bushes for pookalam

In the early days, celebrations were modest, venues were few; as the years passed, Onam grew along with the Malayalee community, with regional associations hosting large-scale events

- Abhirami Vinod

For 58-year-old Kishor Pavithran, a Malayalee who first arrived in the UAE in September 1991, this year’s Onam is more than just a festival; it is a celebration of 34 years of memories, resilience and belonging.

From the early days of exploring a new land as a young bachelor to now raising a family and guiding his community, Kishor has witnessed the UAE grow alongside the Malayalee diaspora, turning intimate gatherings into grand, heartwarming celebrations.

“Back then, Onam (harvest festival) in the UAE was simple, intimate and deeply personal,” Kishor told Khaleej Times. “We would wake up early, collect whatever flowers we could find in the nearby bushes, and create pookalam (small floral carpet) outside our apartments. A handful of friends, usually bachelors or young families, would cook the sadya (traditional meal originating from Kerala) in our own kitchens.

“Sometimes we would gather in a park or a friend’s flat, sitting cross-legged with banana leaves spread on the floor, sharing food, laughter and stories. It was home, far away from home,” he added.