She controls me in and out of bed

MY girlfriend is a perfectionist.

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DO IT MY WAY: He wants passion and spark but she always tells him what to do

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She is obsessed with controlling every aspect of my life.She is determined that I must stay at a particular weight and “fat shames” me if I put on a couple of pounds. She handpicks my clothes and even styles my hair.

Every time we have sex she calls the shots and I must do as I’m told - I'm instructed to “kiss here, stroke there and thrust harder” like a robot.

Over the years she’s separated me from my friends and now we only mix with her extended family in pubs and cafes.

Any time I mention visiting my parents she makes an excuse. Yet if I go anywhere on my own, she sulks. More than once, she’s accused me of loving my family more than her.