LOVED TO DEATH: A SHORT HISTORY OF PET CEMETERIES

Lynne Wallis looks at the fascinating tradition behind grieving our beloved pets and its evolution since the Victorian era

- Lynne Wallis

Wee Bobbit, begins the touching inscription on the headstone of a small Victorian London grave. In memory of our darling little Bobbit… so lonely without our darling sweetheart. The Dickensiansounding Bobbit was born in 1885 and passed away just six years later. A child who had perhaps tragically succumbed to diptheria or measles? Bobbit was in fact a family dog whose owners believed—as so many Victorians did—in an afterlife, not just for themselves but for their pet pooches too. This loving family were convinced they would see their beloved Bobbit again. The inscription ends on a longing note, When our lonely lives are over, and our spirits from this earth shall roam, we hope he’ll be there waiting, to give us a welcome home.

New research from Newcastle University on the changing nature of our relationships with our pets from the Victorian era onwards shows they began to be regarded as family members around the same time the UK’s first pet cemetery opened in 1881 in London’s Hyde Park. The role of both cats and dogs had already shifted far beyond fulfilling a functional working role—with cats employed for pest control and dogs mainly for security—to meeting an emotional need.