KIWI SEX COACH REVEALS 'HOW I GOT MY MOJO BACK'

For years, Rachel Strevens thought there was something wrong with her. While from the outside she had it all - a busy finance career, happy children and a smooth-running household - her sex drive was nonexistent.

- Kate Harvey.

“As women, we prioritise everybody else ahead of ourselves,” explains Rachel. “Our needs and wants sit at the bottom of the pile. If you’re not getting the time to look after your own health and wellbeing, it affects how you feel about yourself sexually.”

By the time the Aucklander’s marriage ended, she was 40 and was convinced her intimate life was over.

“I accepted that part of me had died,” she admits.

Encouraged by friends, the financial consultant decided to try new experiences.

Says Rachel, “I called it my year of self-discovery. I decided to forget about the norms of what we are taught, what sex is and what's acceptable, and just embrace finding myself sexually.”

After doing lots of research, Rachel bought new sex toys and started experimenting with different sexual positions.

“I found ones that hit different pleasure spots,” she says. “For me, sex is never just one position - it’s constantly seeing what feels good.”

For the first time, Rachel learnt she could orgasm something she'd thought impossible up to that point.