I'm worried about my daughter's boyfriend'

'Plant seeds of experience, not doubts'

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My daughter hasn't had many boyfriends and has always ended up being the one rejected. She's been seeing a lad for a couple of years now and, although he's not who I would have chosen for her, they seem to get along. They moved in together six months ago, and as she's 30, I know she's thinking about babies. I'm trying to be open-minded but his family background is quite dysfunctional, he suffers from depression now and then, and I'm afraid for their future with the strain of having children. I'm torn between knowing she's an adult and I shouldn't interfere, but also feeling that I should share my concern. Of course, it might all go better than my fears suggest - I just want them to be happy. Do you think I should I say something?