His sexy New Year's resolution is too much!

SUZIE HAYMAN AND SUSAN QUILLIAM CAN HELP

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Q We have a great relationship and lots of sex. But my man's suggesting a New Year's resolution that's left me feeling really uncomfortable - for us to have sex every day of the year until 1 January 2027. Sounds great - such an act of love, promising each other regular bedroom action. But the idea is turning me off. Am I weird to say no?

SUSAN SAYS

A You're not weird. Your man's resolution sounds good. But it turns lovemaking into something regular and routine, which can destroy passion. And what if you miss a day and feel like failures? Or occasionally one of you doesn't want sex and that creates blame and shame? Instead, plan to make love about five times a week. That way you get lots of fun, but with more spontaneity - and less pressure.

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