HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILD'S TEACHERS

We look at some tips and strategies to help you communicate effectively and confidently with your child’s teachers.

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Building a strong partnership with your child’s teachers is one of the most powerful ways to support their educational journey. Open, respectful communication helps ensure you’re all working towards the same goal - giving your little one the best possible experience at school. Whether it’s a quick catch-up at the school gate or a more formal parent-teacher meeting, creating a positive dialogue can make all the difference.

START OFF WELL

First impressions matter, and establishing a positive relationship early on sets the tone for the year ahead. Introduce yourself at the start of term - either in person, via email, or at a school open day. Share anything helpful about your child, such as their strengths, any learning challenges or even quirks that make them unique. Teachers appreciate parents who are engaged but respectful of their expertise, so keep the introduction friendly and collaborative.

THE RIGHT TIME AND MEDIUM

Timing is everything. Teachers juggle packed schedules, so catching them for a meaningful chat during a busy drop-off isn’t ideal. If it’s a quick update, a note or email may suffice. For more complex concerns, request a dedicated time to meet. Many schools have systems for booking appointments, and scheduling shows respect for the teacher’s time while ensuring your issue gets the attention it deserves.

BE CLEAR AND SPECIFIC

Whether you’re discussing a concern or celebrating your child’s progress, clarity is key. Instead of saying, “My child doesn’t like maths,” try, “She seems to get frustrated with long division - can you recommend any strategies to help her at home?” The more specific you are, the easier it is for teachers to provide tailored support or feedback.