The gifts of grandparents

From hugs to heritage, they give grandchildren identity, security, and belonging

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In the Philippines, it's common to see grandparents playing an active role in raising their grandchildren.

Whether it’s helping with school pickups, passing down family traditions, or simply offering a comforting presence at home, these moments should never be taken for granted.

Registered psychologist Dr. Elaine Rose S. Ferrer, currently affiliated with MindCare Club, explains how this unique bond between two generations plays an important role in strengthening children's mental health and emotional security. She highlights seven meaningful ways grandparents enrich their grandchildren's lives.

1. Provide a sense of security

Grandparents, compared to parents, often have more time and patience to be fully present. "They are not pressured to perform everyday parental tasks, so their presence is a calmer one," explains Dr. Elaine.

She describes this as a kind of "soft authority," firm yet gentle, creating an environment where children feel both grounded and protected. "Safety and security are very important for children, as these reduce the risk of stress, anxiety, and depression."