Should Al be allowed to resurrect the dead?

Griefbots fundamentally change the process of mourning.

- James Muldoon

When Roro (not her real name) lost her mother to cancer, the grief felt bottomless.

In her mid-20s and working as a content creator in China, she was haunted by the unfinished nature of their relationship. Their bond had always been complicated — shaped by unspoken resentments and a childhood in which care was often followed closely by criticism.

After her mother’s death, Roro found herself unable to reconcile the messiness of their past with the silence that followed. She shared her struggles with her followers on the Chinese social media platform Xiaohongshu, hoping to help them with their own journeys of healing.

Her writing caught the attention of the operators of artificial intelligence character generator Xingye, who invited her to create an Al version of her mother as a public chatbot.

"I wrote about my mother, documenting all the important events in her life and then creating a story where she was resurrected in an AI world," Roro told me through a translator.

"You write out the major life events that shape the protagonist’s personality, and you define their behavioural patterns. Once you've done that, the AI can generate responses on its own. After it generates outputs, you can continue adjusting it based on what you want it to be.”

During the training process, Roro began to reinterpret her past with her mother, altering elements of their story to create a more idealised figure — a gentler and more attentive version of her.

This helped her to process the loss, resulting in the creation of Xia, a public chatbot with which her followers could also interact.