Workplace love dilemma

Dear James, I'M in love with a colleague - but it's a secret!

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We're not part of the same team but just fell for each other.Neither wants to leave our jobs and, with such a tight job market, that wouldn't be a good idea anyway. But as our relationship gets more serious, it is harder to conceal.

Should we continue to keep it under wraps or be open about it? Aren't couples in the workplace frowned upon? Antonia, Winchester

James says: