Being blamed for my hubby's affair

I'VE HAD INSULTS AS WELL

- JANE O'GORMAN

I'M being blamed for the breakdown of a marriage even though I've done nothing wrong.

I've been told that if I'd given my cheating husband better sex, then he wouldn't have strayed.

Six months ago, I discovered that he was playing away. A friend said she had seen him with another woman.

I found receipts for restaurants and hotels in his pockets and odd payments on his bank statements.

Instead of confronting him - I suspected that he would deny everything and call me crazy - I decided to follow him instead.

It didn't take me long to discover that he was sleeping with a colleague. I finally confronted them in a local wine bar.

I was very calm and reasonable. They were kissing and giggling, and I asked them to stop and explain themselves. She went ballistic.

She threw her drink in my face.