Back in the dating game but nervous about having sex

TM a 46-year-old woman who’s recently hit the singles market after the end of a long-term relationship. Id been with my partner for 15 years and left because he wouldn't commit.

- Dear Coleen

I spent years hoping for marriage and babies, and I feel like a bit of an idiot now that I didn't leave sooner.

T’ve been focusing on my job and my friends, whove all been great. They helped me to set up a dating profile and I've connected with someone lovely. At the moment I'm not looking for anything serious, which is probably a good thing as this guy is only 35. We've met up a couple of times and there's definitely chemistry, but nothing has happened so far.

‘We've planned to go away for a couple of nights, which I'm excited about, but I'm very worried about the sex thing.