45 Gender and Sexuality Related Terms You Need to Know

Here is a comprehensive look at the LGBTQIA+ spectrum.

- Sophie Saint Thomas, Taylor Andrews, and Rachel Varina

As we all know by now, gender, sexual orientation, and romantic preferences all span across a spectrum. And thanks to language constantly evolving, this means there are many more terms people can use to describe themselves that go well beyond just ‘straight’ or ‘gay’ and ‘male’ or ‘female’. But because sexuality and gender identity are so nuanced, it is important to stay informed and knowledgeable about inclusive language so you can continue to provide a safe space for those around you. Especially, since LGBTQIA+ people can oftentimes be demonised for simply being themselves.

So, whether you are one of the identities below or just want to be a better ally, read on to learn more about 45 LGBTQIA+ terms that are absolutely essential to know.

1. AROMANTIC

Aromantic is used to describe someone who does not experience a romantic attraction to another person. This could look like someone who does not want to go on dates, has no interest to ever be in a romantic relationship, and/or does not need to get to know someone above and beyond a friendship. Aromanticism is most often confused with asexuality. The difference is (to put it very simply): an asexual person may not want to sleep with you, while an aromantic person may not want a romantic relationship with you. But they might still decide to have one anyway.

2. ALLOROMANTIC

On the flip side of aromantic is alloromantic. The term describes people who experience romantic feelings for one or more individuals. An alloromantic person can experience romantic feelings with someone from the opposite gender or the same gender, of two genders, or of various genders. This is a privileged identity since it is often the (incorrectly) assumed romantic orientation.