Nurture Parenting Magazine - Night Feeding eZine ~ Issue 9

In dieser Ausgabe

Sometimes, the notion of 'living in the moment' feels frustrating as a mum. Moments arise when your child incessantly whines despite your efforts, or they become demanding, leaving you longing for respite. Perhaps it's during a public tantrum, or when you're lying beside your child, hour after bedtime, still wide awake. In those times, I yearn to escape mentally, perhaps to a serene island. The idea of 'being present' doesn't address these challenging moments. It doesn't acknowledge the unpleasantness or frustration that can accompany them. Recently, I stumbled upon a post on Facebook that shed light on this dilemma. It emphasized that living in the moment isn't always pleasant or joyful – and that's okay. Life encompasses a spectrum of emotions, both uplifting and disheartening. Evading the unpleasantness is futile; it's crucial to embrace all emotions fully. Practicing this mindset during trying moments has been both bitter and sweet. I've felt frustration surge through me, but by observing it, I've found the strength to release it, allowing me to be more present for my child's needs. It's not easy, nor always pleasant, but accepting that fact makes it more manageable. So, next time you're feeling frustrated or overwhelmed, remember, it's okay not to enjoy every moment. Embrace the discomfort, for it's an integral part of life's rich tapestry.
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**Whilst the parenting articles in each issue, are timeless, the branding is not lol! We rebranded from issue 22, regardless, enjoy the gift of Nurture!
Kristy xo