Nicer person?

Tips to build empathy, listen better, manage emotions, and practice everyday kindness without people-pleasing habits

- Soumya Prabhu

In a world that often feels rushed and self-focused, being a genuinely nice person can feel like a rare quality. But kindness isn't a passive trait it's a set of habits we can cultivate with awareness and intention. Being nicer isn't about being perfect or always agreeable; it's about showing empathy, respect, and generosity in ways that uplift others and enrich your own life. Here are eight powerful, practical ways to become a genuinely nicer person.

"Being a genuinely nicer person isn't about surface-level politeness, but about deeper emotional awareness. It means noticing my reactions, practicing self-compassion, and choosing thoughtful responses over impulsive ones. When I truly listen, people feel seen and understood. By acknowledging emotions, expressing appreciation, and respecting healthy boundaries, I protect my own well-being while staying open to others. Understanding that everyone carries unseen struggles allows me to respond with empathy and build stronger human connections," says Ekta Dharia, Clinical Psychologist and Psychotherapist.

Practice active listening: One of the easiest ways to be nicer is simply to listen. Put your phone down, look at the person in front of you, and let them finish what they're saying without cutting in. When someone feels heard, they feel valued. And that small moment of attention can make a big difference in how safe, respected, and connected they feel with you.