Curiosity can bridge the generation divide

As the lines marking generational shifts blur, having open, empathetic conversations across the age gap become crucial to getting along

- Divya Naik

In the past, generations were defined by distinct cultural and technological experiences, each lasting decades. Today, those lines are rapidly dissolving. Societal shifts that took a generation to unfold now occur within just a few years. This has given rise to micro-generations—such as Xennials (those born between Gen X and Millennials) and Zillennials (straddling Millennials and Gen Z)—creating a growing sense of identity confusion and pressure to constantly adapt.

Experts warn that these blurred generational boundaries come with psychological consequences as individuals struggle with self-perception, shifting roles and their sense of relevance. "The issue isn't just the generational gap, it's the lack of connection," explains Mumbai-based psychotherapist Dr. Aman Bhonsle. "Older generations feel like they're being left behind, while younger ones feel like they're sprinting on a treadmill that never stops."

GRAPPLING WITH CHANGE Vijay Sharma, 75, a retired school principal based in Mumbai, grew up in an era when respect for elders and structured roles defined society. "You followed a clear path—study, work, get married, raise a family. There was no confusion about what was expected of you," he recalls. However, the modern world no longer adheres to such rigid expectations.

The septuagenarian's struggle is not just with technology, but with a broader cultural shift. "In my time, people respected authority. Now, even young children question elders, and that is difficult for me to accept," he says. "I try to keep up, but it's frustrating when my experiences don't seem to hold the same value anymore."