His sex with lover as I ate downstairs

MY man deviously invited me to his secret lover's home - and then bonked her while I was downstairs chatting to her neighbour.

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He has now admitted that he got a kick out of luring me over there, setting me up and humiliating me. How can I continue to live with or forgive someone who would do that?

A few weeks ago, he announced we'd been invited to a dinner party. He explained that the hostess, a colleague of his, was lonely and desperate to make new friends.

Stuffy dinner parties aren’t really my thing, but he went on and on about me accompanying him.

On the night I had a few pre-drinks to get me in the mood and found myself quite liking a couple of the neighbours.

During the main course the hostess complained of a problem with the bathroom and asked my husband to help fix it.