Reclaim your mind and emotions

NO PERMISSION NEEDED

- ANOLENE THANGAVELU PILLAY

HAVE you ever felt that quiet pull, a subtle ache in your chest, a whisper telling you something isn’t right before the name of a feeling comes to mind? What if that feeling was your mind’s way of protecting you, signalling that you alone decide what can truly affect your life?

Inside our minds live feelings, memories, and reactions — some protective, others heavy with shame or fear - blending confusion with curiosity that asks: “How did it get this way?’ Alarm bells ring at times, disrupting daily focus until we fit all the puzzle pieces together.

Have you ever imagined what it would feel like if every thought, memory, or influence needed your permission to enter? Trauma doesn’t ask for permission. Think of your emotional protective bubble - where you decide who enters, who stays, and who signals potential harm. Like the bubbles in an Aero chocolate, your mind holds pockets of feelings and memories: some light, some heavy.

Your Emotional Access Protocol (EAP) acts as the protective system - almost the guardian of all your emotional protective bubbles - activating them to keep harmful thoughts, feelings, and influences at arm's length. When an external remark or action threatens your boundaries, the ‘No Permission Needed’ approach naturally activates, guiding your response like a well-wisher with compassion.