WARNING: RED FLAG ALERT

ARE THINGS LOOKING BLEAK WITH BAE? IT MAY BE TIME TO REMOVE THOSE PINK, ROSE-TINTED GLASSES AND PAY ATTENTION TO THE RED FLAGS. BREAKING THESE TOXIC HABITS COULD POTENTIALLY SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP...

- CISKA THURMAN

By now you may be well aware that relationships are about communication, mutual respect and compromise.

Maybe you have read that article, heard the podcast, and even watched multiple TED Talks. Messages about how to successfully relate to others can be found everywhere.

Even the bad habits are obvious to us: Don't lie, don't cheat, don't dominate. But what about the obscure habits - the ones that tiptoe in and slowly become toxic?

INSECURITY

Do you stalk his exes online, or scroll through her phone when she is in the shower? It's time to seriously consider what this constant need for reassurance says about you or your relationship. For you, this secretive behaviour is breaking not building - trust, which is one of the cornerstones of a successful relationship. Besides, it puts you in a constant state of paranoia and doubt. If you're overly suspicious that they are hiding something, then this red flag needs to be addressed head-on.

BREAK THE HABIT:

Sit down and have a mature discussion with your partner; don't sulk and stew.