Personal Problems Q & A

November First 2018

Woman's Era

I AM A 19-YEAR-OLD STUDENT STUDYING IN STANDARD X. I HAVE fallen in love with a boy who is three years younger than I am and is my classmate. Actually, this boy had been in love with me ever since we both were in standard IV. This is not surprising because I am very beautiful and most of the boys in my class are in love with me. But I had not been in love with this boy earlier. I had then been in love with another boy who is very popular because of his ability to crack jokes and make the class laugh.

But this boy had fallen out of love with me and into love with a new girl who joined our class and I too had fallen in love with another boy. But now I am in love with the boy who has been in love with me since we were both in standard IV. However, I have a problem that everyone in my class, especially the girls, are making fun of me. They are all saying that something is seriously wrong with me, and that I am boy-mad and abnormal. They are saying that they are going to tell our class-teacher about all that I am up to.

Actually the truth is that I have no real friends in my class. So I am worried that my classmates, especially the girls, will complain and tell the teacher that I have a bad character. If they do that, I will be in real trouble.

I am very worried. Please advice me on what I should do.

While you have given many details of your love affairs while you are still in school, you have given very few other details about yourself, your family background, your parents, etc. This leaves many questions unanswered.

For instance, how is it that you are just in standard 10 when you are already 19 years old? And surely your parents are aware of their daughter’s obsession with members of the opposite sex and worried about this.