Let Go… Let's GO!!

“I’ve been stabbed in the back by those I needed most. I’ve been lied to by those I love. And I have felt alone when I couldn’t afford to be. But at the end of the day, I had to learn to be my own best friend because there’s going to be days where no one is going to be there for me but myself!”

-  Abhrekha Jain Sahlot

Drifting away from someone or something you had loved or was attached to could either be relaxing or disturbing. What is more difficult or perhaps the hardest is to let go of the emotions, attachments, and feelings. The hardest thing about change is letting go of what you were comfortable with and going forward with something you are not.

We all have experienced these feelings and emotions multiple times in our lives. When we had our first heartbreak or when we lose our loved ones or when someone whom we loved immensely betrays us.

While I have closely felt and experienced the pain of losing my father, I could still manage to lift myself after few years and accept that he is around me, always blessing me and motivating me to move forward. Whenever I feel low or miss him, I have his emails and pictures, mentioning how proud he is of me and that his blessings are with me till eternity. Somehow, his encouraging words of wisdom has always helped me to move forward to achieve bigger and better.

Everyone has a different mechanism to deal with losing their near and dear ones, but I chose to celebrate his life instead. I chose to be happy always as this is what he always wanted, I chose to make him proud, I chose to continue his legacy, spreading love and happiness forever...

Losing any loved one is painful, yet it heals with time, while memories remain forever, we still move on with sweet remembrance.

However, another feeling which we often experience in our lives is of betrayal, which often leaves us bitter. The saddest and most hard thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies.