Lust Sex Orgasm & Women!

Jodikhtahaiwohbiktahai. Sex sells in our Bollywood. But hey, heres the catch! Sex sells only if you add titillating curves, lewd lyrics and objectification under the lustful male gaze. Show smooth mid-riffs swaying to item songs and nobody bats an eye (Kyunkidekhomagarpyarse!),but showSwaraBhaskarslipping her hands a little lower down her body, masturbating on the silver screen and everyone loses their minds!Tauba,tauba! Because.Lust. Desire. Sexuality. And Woman? uhh.. 404! Error not found!

- Sanchita Chavan

At least, that’s how it used to be before. Earlier, you could see it all - be it romance, passion and aggressive sexual advances, but only from men, while women coyly accepted them or shied away. ‘Poori hogi hasrat toh ban karo yeh kasrat!’ Why is sex a kasrat for an aurat? Where are her wild fantasies, her lustful wishes, her mind-blowing experiences? Thank God, the scene now has finally changed to “I’m a woman, hear me roar!” No more coquettish kitten meows, damn it! We are lionesses! Charam Sukh, gentlemen. “Women like it, need it, and want it… just as much as men do”, as famously declared by our Vidya Balan on Koffee with Karan. And speaking of Vidya Balan, who can forget her legendary performance as Silk in The Dirty Picture?“Mujhe jo chahiye uska maza sirf raat ko aata hai.” Now that’s what we call dhamakedaar depiction of female sexuality! Now even in Bollywood, women have showcased their sexuality in movies, but it was majorly through the viewpoint of men, their gratification over a women’s experience. Not to mention the ‘Woh kare toh rasleela, main karu toh character dheela!’ attitude that we have towards a woman having sex. “We are squeamish and embarrassed about female sexuality and the female body, and if someone talks about it in a normal way, the reaction is ‘oh my God’. The ‘hawww’ feeling (of being astonished) is a big one in the lives of women; it’s silly and wrong. It is reflective of the kind of society we live in,” says Swara Bhaskar.