Mea's story of courage 'THE RING IS MY SAFE PLACE'
Woman’s Day Magazine NZ|June 19, 2023
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Fleur Guthrie
Mea's story of courage 'THE RING IS MY SAFE PLACE'

If you had asked Mea Motu 10 years ago if the boxing ring would become her safe place, she would have laughed and thought, “What a joke!”

At the time, in the grips of domestic violence and feeling trapped, she associated the sport with her then-husband. Dodging jabs from him was a weekly occurrence.

“I hated boxing,” tells the single mother-of-five. “My ex did it, so that made me bitter towards it. There was always a shadow of him associated with it. I was like, ‘Boxing isn’t for me, it’s for him.’”

So no one is more surprised than Mea that becoming a professional boxer has brought her healing. It’s redeemed all the things that were stripped from her – self-confidence, freedom and mana.

In April, the 33-year-old made history as the newly crowned IBO world super bantamweight champion, after defeating Canada’s Tania Walters at fight for Life.

As the unanimous decision was announced, Mea dropped to her knees and cried.

“I started getting emotional before the result was even announced because I was just so proud of myself that I finished it,” she says. “That felt like a big accomplishment. Everything I had worked so hard for hit me really good. 

“It was like a brick dropped on my heart. My legs gave way. I couldn’t have cared less what the decision was because I already felt like a champion. This journey has brought up a lot of cobwebs for me… trauma but also peace.”

This story is from the June 19, 2023 edition of Woman’s Day Magazine NZ.

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