Ms Geber, now 74, realised that there was no obvious person to turn to if she and her husband needed a hand as they grew older. "Who is going to do this for us?" she wondered. The disquieting answer: "No one."
Solo ageing - people growing older without reliable support from adult children or other relatives - has become increasingly common, largely because baby boomers and Gen Xers, by choice or circumstance, are childless at about twice the rate of previous generations.
In the United States, about a third of people 50 and older now live alone and do not have children, are estranged from their children or cannot depend on them or other family members for help. Millions more who, like Ms Geber, are married without children, will also eventually be on their own after a spouse dies.
These solo agers face many of the same planning issues as older adults with children - figuring out how they will manage their future care if their health falters, where they should live and how to make their money last. But their different circumstances often warrant different solutions.
"The lack of an easily identifiable default person to step up if you need help means solo agers have to approach retirement planning with an extra layer of intentionality and urgency," said Mr Rob Lyman, president of Johnson Lyman Wealth Advisors, a wealth management firm in Los Altos, California.
If you are a solo ager or might be one day, experts recommend you begin thinking about your options as soon as possible, before a crisis hits. "You cannot plan for every eventuality," said Ms Geber, who now has a support system in place, and after years as a management consultant has made a second career as a solo ageing consultant. "But you can ensure your most urgent needs are covered."
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