Hubby's happy in life but I'm bored

My husband and I are in our early 50s, but we're both very young at heart, look good for our age and have a 10-year-old daughter, who also keeps us on our toes.

Dear Coleen

We've been together for 20 years and our relationship has always been solid.

My issue is, while I'm happy in the relationship and things are fine, life is very unexciting.

We still have sex once or twice a week and it's OK, and I do still fancy him, but there's no chemistry or thrill.

Every day feels the same school runs, shopping, work and that's pretty much it.

While my husband is a really good dad and partner, he's not very dynamic or ambitious and I think he's happy with the way things are. But I'm not.