Are you demisexual?
GQ South Africa|February - March 2023
You might be if having an emotional bond is higher on your agenda than physical attraction
Ruchira Sharma
Are you demisexual?

SOCIETY MIGHT (SLOWLY) BE MOVING TOWARDS A GREATER AWARENESS OF SEXUAL INTERESTS, orientations, and gender identities, but myths around demisexuality and what it means still exist.

Being demisexual looks different to different people, but if you've ever felt like you're rarely attracted to people you see around you, felt sexually attracted to someone you were close to, or felt your emotional connection with someone directly affects if you're sexually attracted to them, you might be demisexual.

In essence, demisexuality is a sexual orientation where people only feel sexual desire for people they have a strong emotional bond with. People who identify as demisexual can still be straight, gay or bisexual. They can also be uninterested in sex.

HOW IS DEMISEXUALITY DIFFERENT?

You might think demisexuality describes anyone who's not into casual sex or one-night stands, but it's more nuanced than that. In fact, demisexuality falls on the asexuality spectrum and describes the experience of having no sexual interest in anyone unless they've emotionally connected with them.

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