Watching his former band mate Robbie Williams conquer the world should have filled Gary Barlow with brotherly pride. Instead, their intense rivalry meant he was consumed by feelings of shame and worthlessness that would rock his mental health for years to come.
Opening up about his three-decade career, Gary, 52, admits that Robbie's exit from Take That, the band's split, and his lacklustre attempt to go solo left him in a vulnerable place in the late 90s.
"I remember thinking, 'Who am I? What do I really think?' I'd lost all identity by that point," he says. "I spent a year blaming myself, a year feeling sorry for myself. There was a shame thing going on with me, which was constantly being reminded by Robbie, who was King of the World at the time."
Robbie's career was going from strength to strength. The Angels singer's albums dominated the charts and he couldn't resist taking a pop at Gary whenever he was given a chance to. "Sorry, Gary, but I was always the talented member of the band," he said as he picked up a Brit Award for Best Song in 2005.
"Every time that happened, it would take me six months to get over another version of him saying something and everyone laughing," Gary says. "So I had some eating disorders along the way. I battered myself." Rebuilding his mental health took years.
"I had to start from scratch. It was a very slow climb back," he tells BBC Two's Reel Stories. "I think in the modern day, a therapist would have undone it in about 12 months, but it took me five years to eventually come out of it with some kind of light."
But today, the Take That boys - Gary, Mark Owen and Howard Donald - can look back at the band's journey with pride and a handful of laughs. Particularly when they revisit the boy band's early days, performing at a school assembly in 1992.
This story is from the November 27, 2023 edition of OK! UK.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 8,500+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber ? Sign In
This story is from the November 27, 2023 edition of OK! UK.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 8,500+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber? Sign In
I might be a late bloomer but it seemed to work out'
Documenting her journey from shy beginnings to stardom with plenty of comedy and emotional moments along the way actress Rebel Wilson shares her story in a controversial book
CELINE IS HOPING FOR 'A MIRACLE'
In an emotional interview, superstar singer Céline Dion opens up on the incurable disease that has changed her life, and her hopes to be back on stage one day
'I thought I was a hopeless case'
Coronation Street star Stephanie Davis talks about her long road to recovery, finding love with Joe Mckalroy and what the future holds for her career and family
I'm really excited to spend more time with the girls'
As singer Kimberley Walsh prepares for a special anniversary tour with Girls Aloud, she lifts the lid on another artistic project that’s very dear to her heart
A 'MAGICAL' BIRTHDAY AWAITS CHARLOTTE
Princess Charlotte is growing into a confident young lady” says former royal correspondent Jennie Bond
PARIS SHOWS OFF DAUGHTER LONDON
Proud mum Paris Hilton shares a beautiful spring photoshoot of her baby girl and son Phoenix alongside their father Carter Reum as she celebrates the joy of family
'WE DON'T WANT MORE KIDS THAN WE'VE GOT HANDS!'
Gemma And Gorka: Life Behind The Lens stars Gemma Atkinson and Gorka Marquez on pushing back their wedding, life with daughter Mia and son Thiago and why they're done at two kids
I'VE BEEN THROUGH A LOT BUT I'M STILL HERE'
Former EastEnders actress Cheryl Fergison opens up on battling womb cancer with the support of her soulmate” and a close circle of trusted friends
KING CHARLES RETURNS TO PUBLIC DUTIES
Three months after his cancer diagnosis, the monarch is ready to get back to the work he loves
TALES TO TELL - 'There are amazing women doing incredible things...we don't hear their stories'
Journalist Louise Minchin shares her passion for adventure as she celebrates kindred spirits across the globe