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From Something Old To Something Newish
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From Something Old To Something Newish

The second-hand clothing market is booming. Saving money is a factor, of course, but so is consumers’ desire to shop more ethically and create less waste.

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May/June 2021
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Do You Have Patriarchy Stress Disorder? (Short answer: YES, you do)

Forget the glass ceiling; the final frontier of women’s liberation lies in our own biology, says Russian-American psychologist Dr Valerie Rein. She believes that ancestral trauma – specifically, thousands of years of patriarchal oppression – has led to trauma adaptations passed down through generations that still imprison us. She calls it patriarchy stress disorder, and this is how it works.

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10 mins  |
May/June 2021
Morning Ritual, Grounded Life
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Morning Ritual, Grounded Life

Many ancient religions have long-established morning rituals. Now, psychologists say, their practice could be key to having a productive day and living a considered life. By making healthy and conscious decisions in those first few moments, you’re setting a positive tone and an intention for the day ahead.

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9 mins  |
January/February 2021
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What Walking 100km Solo Taught Me

I needed to be alone; to shed the frustrations of a demanding life. I wanted to walk my way back to rediscover who I was. So I set off along the Camino...

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7 mins  |
January/February 2021
How To Kick-Start The New Year!
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How To Kick-Start The New Year!

It’s the perfect (and traditional) time to set some fresh goals, so why not try something slightly unusual? Here are 14 ways to get your new year off to a healthy start.

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6 mins  |
January/February 2021
Money Mistakes To Avoid At 50+
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Money Mistakes To Avoid At 50+

Here are the top-10 mistakes to avoid after the age of 50 if you want to set yourself up for a comfortable retirement, say Anthea Gardner, author of Make Your Money Work for You, and Simon Brown, co-host of The Fat Wallet Show podcast.

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8 mins  |
January/February 2021
I Had A Breast Reduction – And Fell Out Of Love With My Body
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I Had A Breast Reduction – And Fell Out Of Love With My Body

I loved my boobs when I was a teenager. In fact, I loved my body. I flaunted it in itsy-bitsy bikinis on Clifton Beach and at Sea Point Pavilion. And then I really flaunted it all on Sandy Bay, lying in the sun from nine to five with just baby oil as my ‘sunscreen’.

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6 mins  |
January/February 2021
YOUR PLACE in the sun. . .
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YOUR PLACE in the sun. . .

…is mostly beneath a wide-brimmed hat, under an umbrella and with a slather of sunscreen. But not always.

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3 mins  |
January/February 2021
THE CHALLENGER
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THE CHALLENGER

In the fight for the leadership of the DA at a time of crisis for that party, the ANC, SA and the world, Mbali Ntuli came out guns blazing. She lost. But the interest she stirred suggests she won’t be in second place for long…

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7 mins  |
January/February 2021
UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL
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UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL

With Valentine’s Day coming up, why not get yourself a little gift? These two female-led businesses have just the thing, whether you’re in a relationship or flying solo.

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7 mins  |
January/February 2021
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SCENE CHANGE

Sofia Coppola is an award-winning director, a mother, a wife and a warm, funny woman you’d like to have as a friend. Her latest film reunites her with Bill Murray, but this time he’s a father figure. (And no, we still don’t know what he said to Scarlett Johansson at the end of Lost in Translation.)

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7 mins  |
January/February 2021
Claire Danes Reflects On Her Time As Carrie, Being A Teen Star And Family Life
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Claire Danes Reflects On Her Time As Carrie, Being A Teen Star And Family Life

After nearly a decade of playing the role of CIA agent Carrie Mathison, Homeland star Claire Danes bid farewell to both the character and the Emmy Award-winning show when it wrapped earlier this year. She reflects on her time as Carrie, being a teen star and family life.

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5 mins  |
November/December 2020
A Journey To The Past
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A Journey To The Past

Travelling is a wonderful way to make new memories – but on one unusual trip, I went in search of old memories instead, seeking the longfaded footprints of somebody who had changed my life.

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3 mins  |
November/December 2020
‘Because Of Lock-Down, I ...
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‘Because Of Lock-Down, I ...

Given the choice, many of us would probably have given 2020 a Miss Entirely – but for these six women, lockdown had an unexpectedly positive outcome.

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November/December 2020
6 Teas We Should All Have In Our First-Aid Boxes
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6 Teas We Should All Have In Our First-Aid Boxes

For centuries, civilisations have used herbs and leaves steeped in water to cure fevers, colds, indigestion and many other everyday ailments. Here are six teas we should all have in our first-aid boxes.

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4 mins  |
November/December 2020
The Big Reveal
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The Big Reveal

It’s been a long, cold, lonely winter, and we’ve been hibernating in lockdown. But now the sky is blue, the sun is shining, and it’s time to get back out there and soak up some vitamin D. Here’s how to get your body outdoor-ready… no need to frighten the horses! Follow these seven simple steps to get your summer glow on.

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5 mins  |
November/December 2020
Early Birds Vs Night Owls –Which Are You?
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Early Birds Vs Night Owls –Which Are You?

The larks get all the best worms. Or so they say. But setting your alarm clock for five sharp won’t make you a morning person. And striving to be one might be doing you more harm than good.

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9 mins  |
November/December 2020
Bubble, Bubble, Toil & Trouble
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Bubble, Bubble, Toil & Trouble

Are we frogs in a boiling pot, or a stressed but resilient nation trying to make sense of bizarre times? Are we being ruled by an African liberation movement or a 14th-century Italian church? In his new book, Is It Me or Is It Getting Hot in Here? Great Expectations and Boiling Frogs in South Africa, columnist and political commentator Tom Eaton looks at these and other uniquely South African preoccupations and dilemmas.

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5 mins  |
November/December 2020
Of Love & Shadows
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Of Love & Shadows

‘I said, “I’m in my 70s. What are your intentions?” he literally choked on his ravioli’ – Isabel Allende on finding love later in life.

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10+ mins  |
November/December 2020
Big Celebration, Small Budget?
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Big Celebration, Small Budget?

Join the club! Here’s how to navigate the festive season on a shoestring.

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8 mins  |
November/December 2020
Signature style
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Signature style

Whether it’s a vibrant, eye-popping print or a functional piece of furniture that tells a story about heritage and culture, these entrepreneurs know how to make a style statement with their true-to-self design aesthetics.

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7 mins  |
November/December 2020
Luscious Desserts
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Luscious Desserts

We all love something decadent after Sunday lunch, and while these glorious confections from Natalie Paull’s book Beatrix Bakes take a bit of time, they’re a great distraction during lockdown, and double the joy in the savouring.

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September/October 2020
Life's A Drag
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Life's A Drag

Mama Ru says it best: ‘If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else – can I get an amen up in here?’

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10 mins  |
September/October 2020
A Whole New World
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A Whole New World

There’s been a lot of talk about what our world will look like post-lockdown. We asked six south african artists to imagine life after covid-19… here’s what they envision.

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4 mins  |
September/October 2020
The Queen Of Change
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The Queen Of Change

Julia Cameron wants you to do your morning pages.

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10+ mins  |
September/October 2020
The Age Of Margot
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The Age Of Margot

She started her own production company at 24, can count Scorcese and Tarantino among her fans, and Charlize Theron finds her intimidating. Here’s how Margot Robbie went from being a girl in the Australian outback to Hollywood powerhouse.

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7 mins  |
September/October 2020
Stop, In The Name Of Love!
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Stop, In The Name Of Love!

It’s sad but true: people fall for scams every day, and it’s not just the gullible few who click on a dodgy ‘You-have-won-the-lottery link; doctors, lawyers, CEOs and successful businesspeople across the world have fallen prey to targeted scams. We take a look at the tactics of romance scammers, and how to protect yourself and the ones you love.

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10+ mins  |
September/October 2020
Pain Killers
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Pain Killers

In our May issue, we unpacked the dangers of abusing popular over-the-counter (OTC) painkiller powders. This month, we look at opiates – especially those that contain codeine, which are among the most-abused painkillers worldwide. And many are sold OTC here in South Africa.

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9 mins  |
September/October 2020
The Language Of Flowers
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The Language Of Flowers

Hitting midlife can be daunting, but it can also be inspiring; a time for change and growth. And what better way to embrace it than by learning a new skill?

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5 mins  |
September/October 2020
Why Did She Send Those Photos?
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Why Did She Send Those Photos?

Before you forward the nudie you’ve been sent, think twice – you might well be circulating revenge porn. And if the thought of violating someone’s privacy doesn’t stop you, you could also be slapped with a R300 000 fine – or earn yourself four years behind bars.

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9 mins  |
September/October 2020