I'm a nightmare to live with and pushing husband away

Dear Coleen My marriage is really struggling at the moment and it's down to me.

- Coleen Nolan

My husband and I are still young I'm 31 and he's 34 - and we have a three-year-old daughter.

I'm prone to depression and I've found the past couple of years very tough - being a mum, trying to work, the lockdowns, feeling socially isolated - and I've taken it all out on my husband.

I snap at him constantly and nothing he does is ever good enough. I know I'm pushing him away and I must be a nightmare to live with, but I can't seem to stop doing it.

The other day, he stormed off, saying he'd “had enough” and didn't come home until hours later.