Rethinking The Female Orgasm

Guys, it’s time to get smart about getting her off. Here, the authors of vagina bible The Wonder Down Under offer five tips that will ensure mutual O-faces every time

- Ellen Stokken Dahl & Nina Brochmann

Imagine going out with an attractive woman. An unmistakable sexual tension builds throughout the cocktails, dinner and sparkling repartee. By the time you reach your apartment, you’re both so eager that you skip the foreplay and go straight to the sex. Afterward she seems pleased, even satisfied, but know this: No matter how long you kept at it, it’s highly unlikely that the old in-out made her come.

Relax. There’s nothing wrong with your manhood; you’re just spending too much energy in the wrong place. For hetero couples, intercourse is commonly seen as the main act, but outside of bad porn, most women don’t achieve orgasms from vaginal penetration alone. In reality, only about one in four women works this way.

A woman’s ability to come during intercourse is a matter of chance: If the outer part of her clitoris is closer to the vaginal opening, a woman is more likely to orgasm from sex alone. But regardless of this anatomical lottery, you have the power to take a woman to Pleasure Town as many times as she wants. Read on

Set the Stage