Struggling to stay on track with all those virtuous New Year’s resolutions? It’s easier than you think, our experts tell us...
At this time of year, we’re still thinking about the New Year’s resolutions we made – which is likely to trigger one of two reactions. Either “Help! How on earth can I keep this up?” or “Yawn, I’ve tried it before and it never works”. If you’ve attempted to lose weight, cut back on booze, or give up smoking, but never quite stuck with it, we hear you. So, we’ve called on behaviour-change experts to help you get to the bottom of what’s really driving your bad habits – and help you achieve your goals.
1 MAKE MICRO-CHANGES
At this time of year, we want to wipe the slate clean and start afresh. We aim high by signing up for Dry January, a new gymmembership and the latest diet. But it’s a mistake. “Doing too much, too soon, wears out your willpower muscle and sets you up for failure,” says Dr Heather McKee. “Habits are a complex mesh of behaviours; you can’t resolve them all at once. You must work on untangling them one by one until the habit knot is sorted.”
Start with the habits that are easiest to change first, as research shows these smaller, simpler actions become habitual more quickly. “Each time you accomplish a micro-change you get a sense of satisfaction, and this spurs you on to stick with your goals,” adds Heather.
DO IT Set yourself one small change each week. For example, plan a healthy snack at 4pm to avoid the biscuit slump, or aim to walk 100 more steps on your fitness tracker each day.
2 ASK ‘WHY?’
This story is from the March 2019 edition of woman & home South Africa.
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