AFFIRM YOURSELF
Transformation Magazine|December 2020
Affirmations help us see what truly is and not what our senses try to fool us with—and we can use them everywhere in any circumstance.
Noelle Sterne

As a student of spirituality, you probably know about affirmations—powerful, elevating statements that replace our negative thoughts. Affirmations quiet our doubts and fears and scrub out our worries like metaphysical bleach. Used for centuries, affirmations are a form of prayer. A powerful connection exists between our thoughts or spoken affirmations and our outlook. Spiritual teacher Catherine Ponder reminds us that affirmations “make firm” our positive thoughts (Pray and Grow Rich, p. 100).

Many books contain excellent affirmations. Louise Hay’s You Can Heal Your Life is one of my favorites. At the end of every chapter, she adds a paragraph-long meditation/affirmation that sends you floating to the ceiling. Most of the meditations are specific to the chapter subjects, but each begins with this: “In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect, whole and complete.” Covers it all?

WHEN SHOULD YOU USE AFFIRMATIONS?

The answer is anytime, anywhere. You can be formal about it and use affirmations in your regular meditation sessions. Or as meditations. Or in the few moments before you wake or fall asleep. You can also use affirmations whenever you’re waiting, watching, or walking—at a traffic light, in the dentist’s office, on a turn around the neighborhood. Or whenever you feel frightened, uncertain, angry, or edging toward depression.

YOUR CUSTOM-MADE AFFIRMATIONS

You can create your own affirmations for any event, circumstance, person, or quality you want to feel better about. The more specific you are, the stronger the affirmation. Only one rule applies: Always decree your affirmations in the present tense. Here are some broad-spectrum ones to get you started:

• I am worthy of all good in my life.

• I deserve to love and be loved.

• I forgive myself and I am forgiven.

• I lack nothing. All I need is here now.

• I hear my true Voice now.

• I am guided to the right words, decisions, and actions in this situation.

Your affirmations are also great negative catchers. Like seizing sparks that flip out of the fire, extinguish them with your affirmations. Here are some affirmations for some familiar situations, and for additional encouragement, with affirming “testimonies.”

For your parents and partners:

• I forgive them, whether I think they deserve it or not.

• I am free to be myself with them.

• I respond only positively to them.

• They did the best they could and do the best they can. I send them love.

After Derek practiced these affirmations for a month before a family reunion, at the gathering he announced his change of career. To his shock his mother and most difficult uncle didn’t belittle his choice but congratulated him and offered any help they could give.

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