How Best To Handle Conflict At Home
EL Hong Kong|October-November 2019
Family arguments can be our most intense, emotive exchanges. We sought advice from parenting expert ODETTE UMALI from Gordon Parenting on how best to handle conflict at home.
How Best To Handle Conflict At Home

#1 Sibling Conflict

Do you feel like your children are in a constant state of conflict? Studies show this is a normal part of a child’s development – they’re starting to assert themselves and their independence and test their powers.

Sometimes, sibling fights arise from jealousy and competition for attention from parents. Odette recommends that one-to-one time may help. She also suggests the following strategies:

Family meetings: Hold a compulsory family meeting (during a no-problem time) and agree on ground rules for sibling fights. Some suggestions: no physical violence, no name-calling, everyone should feel safe.

This story is from the October-November 2019 edition of EL Hong Kong.

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