The increasing rate of marital discord and divorces all over the world is alarming. Luxembourg has the unenviable distinction of having the highest divorce rate at 87%. India is lagging far behind. Divorce among those married 30 or 40 years ago is not very prevalent unlike those who are now in their twenties, thirties or forties. But is that indicative of marital bliss among older people? Not really. In our patriarchal society it is estimated that around 72% of married women are unhappy. They stay unhappily wedded for life for the sake of the children or because they are not financially independent or are afraid of loneliness or caustic tongues.
Today more young women have successful careers and are better educated than women who are now in their sixties and seventies. They don’t want to be tied down to a loveless marriage. Social sanctions don’t count for much. However, at the end of the day, old or young, divorce is painful and we all would like to spend the major part of our lives happy. Young people are on cloud nine during their courtship days. They think that happiness in marriage is a foregone conclusion. What they fail to realise is that physical intimacy should be the foundation of emotional intimacy. Nothing lasts forever, including fame, wealth and good looks.
This story is from the December 2020 edition of Dignity Dialogue.
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