What Really Gets His Attention?
Glittering India|March 2018

To get your man’s attention back, you have to work in an affirmative manner so that he comes on the same page as you. Women, you need to pull your socks up and try some of these ways to get your man’s attention back into the relationship

Vibha Singh

Have you noticed that your husband or boyfriend is paying less and less time with you and more time with work or his hobbies? It’s perfectly fine to feel a little insecure when he starts focusing on other things, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Usually, when a guy starts switching his attention away from the relationship to things like work or hobbies it is because he feels secure in his relationship. Most guys have the “if it’s not broken, then don’t fix it” attitude.

Right now, he just feels that there is no issue that the relationship needs all of his attention. What you want to do is have a talk about ways that you can spend more time together or you can simply seek more of his attention out with subtle hints. The only thing is that you don’t want to sound demanding or clingy. First, before you set out in an effort to make your man want you more, you’re going to have to keep your emotions in check. Consider this: If it seems like your boyfriend isn’t wanting you as much as you would like, it can really wreak havoc on your emotions.

Sometimes women go through a downward emotional spiral wondering why they aren’t good enough and they begin drowning in feelings of inadequacy. The feelings of not being enough are almost poisonous, leading to feelings of self-loathing and a loss of self-esteem.

When it comes to talking to your man, you will want to avoid sounding demanding. If you push him and there is nothing wrong, to him, in the relationship, he will start to get defensive. Don’t sound like you don’t trust him, or that you don’t appreciate him. If it is work that is getting in the way of you two men take their jobs very seriously. In fact, a job, to a man, defines who he is.

If you begin to get all demanding he feel like you don’t appreciate all the work that he does, which he’ll say he does it for you. Most of the time, you will find that if the man is too evolved in work it is because he wants to better his position, better his life, and better the relationship too. However there are many ways that you can take control of the situation. When you do any of the following make sure that you think about how your boyfriend/husband will feel. You don’t any to alienate or seem demanding or clingy.

Whether you have been seeing a guy for two months or dating someone for three years, when a man starts to lose interest in you, it can be absolutely devastating. Many women will do some insane things just to claw their way back into a man’s life. But if he is pulling away from you, hounding, stalking and threatening him with an ultimatum will only make things worse. If your guy seems distracted with other things going on in his life, and he’s no longer making you a priority, it’s time for you take matters into your own hands. It is no longer okay for you to just sit back and accept the situation. With these simple tricks, you can regain your guy’s attention without driving him even further away. All it takes is a little bit of time, a little bit of patience, and a whole lot of focus.

When you leave a guy alone, all he has left are his own thoughts and his own feelings. He’s not feeling the pressure from you to be a certain way or act a certain way. By giving him space, you’re letting him know you don’t need to be all up in his face and his personal space 24/7. You’re fine and more than content to live your own life with or without him.

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