46 percent of Americans find the idea of kissing more during sex very appealing.
Have a Tantric Kiss
During positions in which you’re face-to-face, bring your lips in super close so that you’re almost (but not quite) kissing, then inhale when your partner exhales. “The sensation that you’re almost breathing for each other is extremely potent and quite erotic,” says Tantra educator Xanet Pailet, author of Living an Orgasmic Life.
Use Your Words
Speaking up as the action intensifies can boost the happy chemicals serotonin and dopamine in your brain, says sex and relationship therapist and board-certified psychiatrist Dion Metzger, MD. Here are three intimate AF ways to express yourself.
WHISPER SWEET THINGS
Murmuring to bae prompts an automatic bodily response that can feel like arousing tingling down their neck. Use the word you (as in, “You turn me on so much”) to let your S.O. know you’re zoned in on them, says relationship expert Dori Gatter, PsyD. Bonus: Research suggests they’re likely to follow your steamy instructions if you whisper in their right ear.
DRAW OUT THE DETAILS
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