You Gotta Stay Cool
Young Parents Singapore|March 2018

Why is your one-year-old angry all the time? It’s important to fi rst understand the reasons behind these outbursts

Dr Richard C. Woolfson
You Gotta Stay Cool

Don’t be surprised if you feel your one-year-old is angry all the time – it doesn’t mean she has started her terrible twos already. It just means that she is a typical toddler who is full of her self-importance.

She thinks the world revolves around her, so if she doesn’t get exactly what she wants, when she wants it, she explodes with rage. In a flash, your normally quiet, friendly, loving one-year-old can transform into Miss Angry who won’t tolerate anyone standing in her way.

But in most instances, she is not being naughty when she has a tantrum; it’s just that her youthful frustration has reached boiling point and an angry tantrum is her instinctive way of releasing this inner tension.

The first step in taming her anger is to first understand the reasons behind these outbursts. For example, these are what she is trying to tell you:

“I’m very tired.” Tiredness and angry behaviour are closely linked at this stage in your infant’s life. When she gets exhausted, she becomes irritable and restless.

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