Giving up the ghost
Brunch|February 11, 2023
Ghosting someone is no worse than any other kind of breakup. Let's embrace the spirit of the time
Rachel Lopez
Giving up the ghost

You’d best make your peace with it. Ghosting isall right. Sure, it’s terribly unprofessional when you’re dealing with a client. It’s rude when you don’t honour a restaurant reservation. And it’s an unforgiveable thing to do to someone close to you.

But with online dating, surely, it shouldn’t be a big deal. The system is a numbers game. You swipe far and wid. Someone responds. You bond over a shared (though exaggerated) interest in jazz and hiking. You’reboth reading Ikigai! You both suspect truffle fries are a scam. You’re just starting to get interested. Maybe you meet too. And then silence. For days. They’ve ghosted you. 

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