Apne Anushasanheen Bachchon Ko Kaise Sudharen - CHUNILAL SALUJA

Aaj pashchim kee svachchhand aur bhoogavaadee sanskriti ke kaaran hamaara parivesh hee badal gaya hai. Aanand manaane, yoojanaoon mein jeene aur chakaachoundh bharee duniya mein sudh-budh bisaar dene kee hod machee hai. Aisee jeevan shailee se sarvapratham bachche hee prabhaavit hootee hain, kyonki seekhanee-samajhanai, paripakv bananee ke kachchee umr mien hee unheen pareelook jaisa kaalpanik sansaar aakarshit kar raha hoota hai. Yah sankraman kaal ​​bhayaavah hai, jisasee bachana avashyambhaavee hai.

Beeja laad-pyaar, choree-cugalee, jiddeepan, eershya, aalas, padhaee se uub, kaam see jee churaana, tood-phood, maar-peet, aavaaraagardee, chichala manoranjan, behuda faishan, yaunaakarshan, deting-seiting, khataranaak nashon ka aakarshan , anushaasanaheenata, aparaadhee aur hinsak pravritti, lakshyaheenata, palaayan, kunthaein, paisee ka ghamand, galat sangatiyaan, shaaert kat kee sanskrti jaisee vikaar baccoon kee bacapan aur unakee bhavishy ko barbaad kar unakee sanrakshakoon ko abhishapt jeevan jeenee ke liye baadhy kar dete hain.

Leekin chinta karanee aur ghabaraanee kee aavashyakata naheen hai. Keeval aap sadaiv jaagaruuk banee rahain aur bachchoon ko sahee raasta dikhayen, unake bacapan ko sanvaareen aur sukhad bhavishy ka nirmaan karen. Yah pustak aapakee puuree-puuree sahaayata karegee. Isamein bachchoon ke bigaranee ke kaaran aur lakshan to diye hee gayai hain, saath hee unhen bigarane se rokane ke thos evn vyaavahaarik upaay bhee sujhaye gaye hain.(We all want our children to be disciplined, but it can be a hard thing to teach them at times! Lack of attention due to both parents working can be traumatic for children. Such absence disturbs their studies that they try to cover up through alibis. Excessive display of love and care on child may make them demanding besides throwing tantrums at the slightest opportunity. Throwing pocket money and frequent gifting in order to compensate for their long periods of absence is one of the strong reasons that make them ill mannered. The author Chuni Lal Saluja, backed by his knowledge of psychology and social behaviour offers parents keys to discipline such unruly children. ) #v&spublishers