My Old Friend's ‘The One', But Now She's Getting Married

My old friend’s ‘the one’, but now she’s getting married

- Coleen Nolan

Dear Coleen

I was devastated to find out a good female friend is getting married next year. I’ve known her since we shared a flat at uni and we became inseparable.

We never dated officially, although we did “mess about” sexually on a few occasions back then.

However, there was always a boyfriend on the scene “back home”, so things were never able to progress romantically with us.

Over the years, we’ve stayed in touch and sometimes get together with our other university friends.

I don’t think I realised how much she meant to me until I heard the wedding news – I’m in love with her, but it never dawned on me until that moment.