What-ifs to why-nots: Overthinking overruled

I was preparing for a mammoth event — a literature festival, no less — a landmark moment for my city, something that had never happened here before. I had a solid team, detailed planning, and a clear vision. Yet, my mind refused to be still. Doubts crept in like unwelcome guests: What if something goes wrong? What if I can't pull it off? Where will the funds come from?

- Sonika Sethi

Despite the preparation, I found myself battling a storm within. Sleepless nights turned into days with no appetite. The pressure was quietly gnawing at me. One day, as I stopped by a colleague's room to say a quick hello, she noticed it immediately. Concern clouded her face as she asked me to sit down. She listened patiently, giving me space to unload my fears.

And then she said something simple, yet deeply powerful.

"In short, you are already on a path of self-sabotage. You're sending out panic signals to the Master Planner and expecting chaos in return. Stop. Breathe. Start believing. Think positively, and align your energy with hope, not fear. Send Him the message that you're ready for things to go right."