Punished For Pregnancy
The Malaysian Women\'s Weekly|September 2018

You are a working mum with a decade of experience, an excellent reputation and are set to enjoy new challenges. You’d think the news that a second baby is on the way would be no issue - and you’d be dead wrong.

Ellen Whyte
Punished For Pregnancy

When Tan May Lee landed a job as Head of Group Communications and Branding in a local company, she was delighted. She signed her new contract and then set about notifying her old company and working out her notice. However, a month later, May Lee got a big surprise: she discovered she was pregnant.

“I called the new company’s HR department to tell them the news,” she recalls. “I was open about it because I did not want to turn up at work and just spring it on them.”

At 36, May Lee had over a decade of work experience and an unblemished performance record – including the time when she had her first baby.

However, when she eventually met with the managing director and his deputy, the two most senior people in the new firm, it became clear that there would be trouble.

“They accused me of lying in the interview sessions,” May Lee says bleakly. “I told them I had not. At the time, I did not know that I was pregnant. I also explained that it was my second pregnancy, and that the first pregnancy had not prevented me from executing my responsibilities at work and I had met all my targets.”

Unfortunately, the bosses ignored this.

“They were very discriminatory,” May Lee recalls. “They just went on about how they thought I would not be able to focus on the job because of the coming baby.”

“It was awful. I came out of that meeting thinking, I’ve always done a good job, I am skilled at what I do, I have an excellent reputation and now that I am pregnant, suddenly all that does not matter.”

After that meeting, May Lee received an SMS saying the company they would not proceed with the offer.

“That was clearly not right, and it was not an offer as we had already signed a contract a month before,” May Lee said. “I requested for a proper written letter saying that they had retracted the contract.”

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