Next time you’re tempted to shut out negative emotions, try gritting your teeth and welcoming that unlikely teacher, heartbreak.
YOU KNOW THOSE Staples commercials in which, during times of crisis, a coworker can simply press the red “easy” button and any problem will magically be solved?
For most of my life, I was an easy button junkie, doing whatever I could to avoid pain. There was no organic reason for this—I come from a loving family and by all outward measures was a lucky girl. And yet I never really felt comfortable in my skin. As I entered adolescence, my discomfort got worse. Overeating was the only thing that made me feel better. Food became my retreat, a way to numb myself. I became bulimic and years later an alcoholic. My addictions were my hiding place, a way to make myself untouchable. If you couldn’t reach me, you couldn’t hurt me. I hid within my addictions for years.
Diese Geschichte stammt aus der February 2017-Ausgabe von The Oprah Magazine.
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